We all have our moments, when something just finally
clicks in our heads and we become determined that we've had enough of something
and know something has got to change. We have our "ah-ha moment",
when the clouds part and the sun shines through the previously darkened sky and
we can finally say to ourselves, I am sick of being this way and I CAN CHANGE!
You can change! Even if it's only a little, and you'd be
surprised how those little things add up. In fact, it's probably a series of
little things that got you to where you are unhappy, and it may be a series of
little things that will reverse that.
So, you know something has to change, now what? It's time
to turn that desire to make a change into a plan and that requires identifying
a goal and the actions that will help you accomplish it.
A great way to make a plan, and enjoy the process, is to
set short, medium, and long range goals. Short range goals are those you can
accomplish relatively quickly, in a week or a month, or even immediately. These
short range goals are kinda like the building blocks you use to reach both your
medium range and long range goals. Examples of short range goals are:
Buy some dumbbells
Rid your house of unhealthy foods
Order a Clean Eating magazine or cookbook
Sign up to be a
Health Quester
Replace toxic cleaners in your house with green cleaners
Go for
a walk every day this week
Lose two pounds this week
Drop a dress size by next
month
Do 3 cardio sessions this week
Try Yoga this week
Stop drinking soda now
Do 20 squats a day for one week
When you set your short range goals, you will find that
they will combine to help you reach your medium range goals, which are a little
further in the future (within the next year) and are a bit bigger. Some
examples of medium range goals may be:
Fitting into the size 8 dress I bought by my high school
reunion in eight months
Being able to do a half marathon next summer
Getting
off insulin in 12 months (with your doctors approval)
Be able to do 60 squats a
day within 12 months
Participate in a fitness competition next year
Complete a
year of clean eating
Run a full marathon in two years
Lose 100 pounds (enter time frame here)
Become a certified personal trainer in 18 months
Climb a
mountain in 2 years
Win a fitness or weight lifting competition in 5 years
Remain independent at 70 years old
Make sure your goals are specific. An example of a
non-specific goal is, " I want to be healthier". This kind of goal is
difficult to measure and should be avoided. You want goals that, when met,
there is no doubt that you have accomplished something. You want to be able to
take that goal into the end zone and spike it!
Write these goals down and display them prominently.
Check or cross them off as you accomplish them. Nothing feels better than
checking off an accomplished goal. That sense of accomplishment makes you
strive for and focus on your other goals.
You should get into a pattern of constantly setting and
checking off goals. That's not to say that you are never happy with yourself.
Sometimes a goal might be maintaining what you have already accomplished. Maybe
you finally took off the last ten pounds you were hoping to. Now maybe your
short term goal is to maintain your new weight for a week without gaining a
pound back.There are always goals that can be set once others are met.
Remember to set goals that are rewards for setting other
goals. Maybe your goal for this week is to buy that charm for your bracelet you
promised yourself when you accomplished one of your medium range goals.
Your goals should also be attainable because if you never
get to check anything off your goal list you will quickly become discouraged.
Make sure you give a lot of thought to where you are now and where you want to
go so that you won't bite off more than you can chew ex: climbing a mountain in
2 months when you can barely climb the stairs in your home now. I always encourage
folks to push just beyond what they think they are capable of (mostly because
people underestimate themselves), but be honest with yourself and keep your
goals attainable, so you can celebrate your successes.
Now share your goals with someone. It's so much harder to
fluff off when you are accountable to someone else. Its also fun to share your
accomplishments with those who know your goals once you reach them. Share your
goals with family members, friends, and others you know and love.
Also consider joining the "Health Questers
Page" so you can share your goals, successes, and struggles with others
just like you. It's free and as simple as sending a request to healthquest@sigct.com. There you will
find others to motivate you and cheer you on as well as shared recipes,
inspirational stories, and good old fashioned peer support.
I wish you the greatest success and, as always, a happy
and healthy life!
Please consult with your doctor before changing your
nutritional or exercise regimen.
